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uppababy minu stroller weight Minu V3 Lightweight Travel Stroller, Savannahby UPPAbaby Babesta Pick Best Lightweight Stroller for UPPAbaby Families Category: Lightweight travel strollers Urban strollers Birth to toddler strollers Travel systems Certifications: GREENGUARD Gold REACH certified JPMA certified PFAS free materials The UPPAbaby Minu V3 is a 16. 7 lb compact travel stroller suitable from birth to 50 lbs, with a one hand one step fold that is IATA compliant for airplane overhead bin storage. It is newborn ready out

by UPPAbaby  |  Babesta Pick — Best Lightweight Stroller for UPPAbaby Families

Category: Lightweight travel strollers  |  Urban strollers  |  Birth-to-toddler strollers  |  Travel systems

Certifications: GREENGUARD® Gold  |  REACH certified  |  JPMA certified  |  PFAS-free materials

The UPPAbaby Minu V3 is a 16.7 lb compact travel stroller suitable from birth to 50 lbs, with a one-hand one-step fold that is IATA compliant for airplane overhead bin storage. It is newborn-ready out of the box — the V3’s infinite deep recline and integrated foot barrier (protective footwell) create a safe carriage mode from day one, with no bassinet purchase required. The UPPAbaby Bassinet is not compatible with the Minu V3.

At Babesta, the Minu V3 has a specific and important role in our stroller lineup: it is the only lightweight stroller that is directly compatible with the UPPAbaby Mesa and Aria infant car seats. For any family that already owns a Mesa or Aria, or is planning to buy one, the Minu V3 is the clear lightweight companion stroller. No other travel stroller in this weight class offers that seamless UPPAbaby-to-UPPAbaby click-in.

Compared to the Joolz Aer2 and Stokke Yoyo — the other travel strollers we carry — the Minu V3 is wider (18″ vs. the Aer2’s and Yoyo’s ~17″), heavier by 2–3 lbs, and has a larger basket (20 lbs vs. 17.6 lbs on the Aer2). That wider stance translates to a more stable, planted ride on uneven surfaces — it handles NYC sidewalks with noticeably more confidence than the narrower ultra-compacts. For families who want a lightweight stroller that feels like a lightweight stroller and not a toy, the Minu V3 is the one.

 

Specifications

Stroller weight

16.7 lbs (frame & seat)

Unfolded dimensions

34.5″ L × 18″ W × 41″ H

Folded dimensions

10″ L × 18″ W × 21.5″ H

Fits airplane overhead bin?

Yes — IATA compliant

Suitable from birth?

Yes — infinite deep recline + integrated foot barrier for newborn carriage mode

Bassinet compatible?

No — UPPAbaby Bassinet is not compatible with the Minu V3. Newborn-ready out of the box via recline + foot barrier.

Max child weight

50 lbs (max height 40″)

Fold type

One-hand, one-step fold; self-standing when folded; integrated carry strap

Seat recline

Infinite deep recline including full lay-flat; one-hand adjustment

Footrest positions

3 positions, adjustable

Crotch buckle positions

2 positions for newborn and older child fit

Handlebar material

100% full-grain leather; adjustable height

Suspension

Front suspension + independent rear suspension for smooth multi-terrain ride

Basket capacity

20 lbs — largest basket in the travel stroller category

Canopy

UPF 50+ water-repellent; zip-out extendable; peek-a-boo mesh window

Harness

5-point adjustable; no-rethread; integrated plush seat liner

Integrated carry strap?

Yes — hands-free transport when folded

Hidden Air Tracker pocket?

Yes

Seat back height

High seat back; grows with child

Certifications

GREENGUARD® Gold; REACH certified; JPMA certified; PFAS-free materials

Warranty

3 year non transferable warranty

Frame material

Durable aluminum

 

Best For / Not For

Best For: Families who already own or are buying a UPPAbaby Mesa or Aria infant car seat. Parents who want a more stable, wider-stance travel stroller than the Joolz Aer2 or Yoyo. Frequent travelers who need IATA overhead bin compliance. NYC families who want a lighter everyday stroller to complement a full-size like the Vista V3 or Cruz V3. Walkup dwellers who need something they can carry upstairs.

Not For: Families who want the absolute lightest stroller available (the Joolz Aer2 at 14.3 lbs is lighter). Parents who need a double stroller or modular platform. Anyone who wants to use the UPPAbaby Bassinet — it is not compatible with the Minu V3. Jogging or rough terrain use.

Availability & Colors

Colors

Ada, Dillan, Evelyn, Greyson, Jake (black), Savannah (white/grey)

Availability

Generally in stock; If not allow 5–7 business days for order fulfillment. In-store pickup available at Babesta Tribeca, NYC.

 

Is it suitable for my baby's age?

Newborn (0–3 months)

Yes — the Minu V3 is newborn-ready out of the box via the infinite deep recline and integrated foot barrier (protective footwell). No separate bassinet purchase required. The UPPAbaby Bassinet is not compatible with the Minu V3.

Infant (3–12 months)

Yes — reclined or semi-reclined seat, 5-point adjustable harness, 2-position crotch buckle. Compatible with UPPAbaby Mesa and Aria infant car seats, or Nuna, Cybex, Clek (adapters sold separately).

Toddler (1–4 years)

Yes — upright seat with 3-position footrest, adjustable harness, high seat back for growing kids, up to 50 lbs / 40″ height.

 

Is it good for NYC / city use?

Yes — the Minu V3 is one of our top recommendations for NYC families who need a compact stroller for daily use. The 18″ width is narrower than the Cruz V3 (22.5″) and Vista V3 (25.7″), making it easier to maneuver through restaurant aisles, elevator doors, and tight retail spaces. The front and independent rear suspension make it considerably more planted on cracked NYC sidewalks than pure ultra-compact strollers, which often sacrifice ride quality for weight savings.

The one-hand fold and integrated carry strap mean you can fold it while holding your child and sling it over your shoulder on subway stairs — a practical consideration that the Joolz Aer2’s shoulder strap also addresses. At 16.7 lbs it is light enough for most parents to carry up a walkup flight without it being an ordeal, though the Joolz Aer2 at 14.3 lbs has a meaningful advantage for anyone doing this multiple times a day.

The 20 lb basket is the largest in the travel stroller category — genuinely useful for NYC parents who are combining errands, school drop-off, and grocery runs in a single outing.

 

Quick Comparison: Minu V3 vs. Key Lightweight Alternatives

★ = category standout

Feature

Minu V3

Joolz Aer2

Stokke Yoyo

Bugaboo Butterfly

Weight

16.7 lbs

14.3 lbs

~14.8 lbs

~16 lbs

Width (unfolded)

18″

~17.7″

~17.3″

~17″

Basket capacity

20 lbs ★

17.6 lbs

~22 lbs

~17.6 lbs

Newborn-ready (out of box)

Yes

Yes

No

No

UPPAbaby car seat

Yes ★

No

No

No

IATA overhead bin compliant

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

All-wheel suspension

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

 

Car Seat Compatibility

Adapter required (sold separately)

UPPAbaby Mesa, UPPAbaby Mesa V2, UPPAbaby Aria, Select Maxi-Cosi (Mico Max 30, Mico NXT, Mico Max Plus, Mico AP, Mico Plus), Nuna (Pipa Lite, Pipa Lite LX, Pipa Lite R, Pipa Aire, Pipa Aire RX, Pipa Next, Pipa RX, Pipa Urbn, Klik Plus), Cybex, Clek Liing, BeSafe — ask Babesta team for correct adapter for your brand and model.

Bassinet compatible?

No — the UPPAbaby Bassinet is not compatible with the Minu V3. The Minu V3 is newborn-ready via its built-in recline and foot barrier; no bassinet is needed.

 

What’s Included

       UPPAbaby Minu V3 stroller

       Extendable sun canopy (UPF 50+)

       Large storage basket

       Adjustable 3-position footrest

       Integrated carry strap

       Integrated plush seat liner

 

Optional Add-Ons Available at Babesta

       UPPAbaby Mesa infant car seat — clicks directly onto Minu V3 without adapters

       UPPAbaby Aria infant car seat — clicks directly onto Minu V3 without adapters

       Car seat adapters for Maxi-Cosi, Nuna, Cybex, Clek, BeSafe (sold separately) — ask Babesta team for your brand and model

       Cup holder / snack tray accessories

       Cozy Ganoosh — footmuff for cold NYC winters

 

Babesta Pick — Why We Carry It

The Minu V3 fills a very specific gap that no other lightweight stroller in our lineup covers: the UPPAbaby ecosystem. If you have a Mesa or Aria, you already know how easy the click-in travel system works on the Vista V3 or Cruz V3. The Minu V3 gives you that exact same no-adapter experience in a compact, 16.7 lb stroller. For families who want to go from car seat to lightweight stroller without fumbling with adapters — especially with a newborn — that’s a meaningful convenience.

Beyond the car seat compatibility, we carry it because it’s the most stable travel stroller in its class. The 18″ width and dual-suspension system give it a planted, confident feel on NYC sidewalks that the narrower ultra-compacts don’t match. Parents who come in comparing it to the Joolz Aer2 often leave with the Minu V3 once they push both on the pavement outside — the ride difference is immediately noticeable.

The V3 upgrade from the V2 is also significant: the fully flat recline with integrated foot barrier means it’s genuinely newborn-ready without any extra purchase, which the V2 was not. If you were on the fence about the previous Minu, the V3 resolves the main objection.

 

Babesta Services on This Purchase

When you buy the Minu V3 from Babesta, you get:

       Free in-store assembly and full stroller demo — we walk you through the fold, recline, foot barrier setup, and car seat click-in

       Home delivery below Canal Street NYC (assembled) and same-day courier delivery in NYC/Brooklyn (unassembled)

       In-store pickup available at Babesta Tribeca, 56 Warren Street

       Hold it until you’re ready — no rush

       Price match guarantee

       Registry support — add the Minu V3 and compatible accessories to your Babesta registry

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Can the UPPAbaby Bassinet be used with the Minu V3?

No — the UPPAbaby Bassinet is not compatible with the Minu V3. The good news is that the Minu V3 is newborn-ready out of the box: the infinite deep recline and integrated protective footwell create a safe carriage mode from birth without needing a separate bassinet. This is one of the key upgrades from the Minu V2, which required a bassinet or infant car seat for newborn use.

Is the Minu V3 compatible with UPPAbaby car seats?

Yes — and this is the Minu V3’s standout advantage among lightweight strollers. The UPPAbaby Mesa, Mesa V2, and Aria infant car seats click onto the Minu V3 frame. It is the only lightweight stroller that offers this seamless no-adapter compatibility with UPPAbaby car seats. If you have a Mesa or Aria, the Minu V3 is your natural lightweight companion stroller.

What other car seats is it compatible with?

With the separately sold adapter, the Minu V3 is compatible with select Maxi-Cosi (including Mico Max 30, Mico NXT, Mico Max Plus), Nuna (including Pipa Lite, Pipa Lite LX, Pipa Aire, Pipa Next, Pipa RX, Klik Plus), Cybex, Clek Liing, and BeSafe models. Ask the Babesta team for the correct adapter for your specific car seat brand and model, as compatibility varies.

How does it compare to the Joolz Aer2?

The Joolz Aer2 is lighter (14.3 lbs vs. 16.7 lbs), slightly narrower, and is available at $579 vs. $499.99 for the Minu V3. The Minu V3 has a larger basket (20 lbs vs. 17.6 lbs), a more stable wider stance (18″ vs. ~17″ for the Aer2), and dual suspension for a smoother ride. Most importantly, the Minu V3 is the only lightweight stroller directly compatible with UPPAbaby car seats. The Aer2 does not work with the Mesa or Aria without adapters; the Minu V3 does. If you have a Mesa or Aria, the Minu V3 is the clear choice. If you prioritize the lightest possible weight and subway portability above all else, the Aer2 has the edge.

Does it really fit in an airplane overhead bin?

Yes — the Minu V3 is IATA compliant at its folded dimensions of 10″ L × 18″ W × 21.5″ H. This was a major upgrade from the Minu V2, which was marketed for overhead bins but wasn’t always guaranteed to fit. The V3 can typically be stowed in the overhead compartment on most commercial aircraft. Always confirm with your specific airline before travel.

Can I use this as my only stroller?

Yes, for many NYC families — particularly those in walkups, those who take the subway regularly, or frequent travelers. If you walk long distances daily in a park-heavy neighborhood and prioritize push quality, you may prefer pairing it with a full-size like the UPPAbaby Cruz V3 for those longer outings. The Minu V3 is also a popular second stroller for families who have a Vista V3 or Cruz V3 and want a lighter option for everyday errands and travel.

Can I try it in person?

Yes — the Minu V3 is on the floor at Babesta Tribeca, 56 Warren Street. Our team can walk you through the fold, the recline and foot barrier setup, and — if relevant — demonstrate the Mesa or Aria click-in directly so you can see how the travel system works before you buy.

Can I put this on my baby registry?

Yes — the Minu V3 is a popular registry add at Babesta, particularly for parents who are also registering for the Vista V3 or Cruz V3 and want a lightweight companion stroller from the same ecosystem. A Babesta registry comes with exclusive perks and expert guidance on building your complete stroller setup.

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Introduction: In “The 5 Love Languages”, Gary Chapman displays his masterful understanding of the single factor necessary to create and maintain a healthy relationship – Love. Through his experience as a counselor, stories from the road and journey as a student, Dr. Chapman has been able to materialize the immaterial force which permeates all marriages and relationships, providing the advice which almost no one can articulate. Dr. Chapman has found the languages of love itself, “Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.” What You will Gain: After reading this book, you will find yourself rapidly improving your relationship with your spouse, children, and family. I the heard enthusiastic, supporting words, “Our relationship has been different over the past week!” after implementing the wisdom from “The 5 Love Languages.” You will even find yourself watching drama-filled talk shows like “Dr. Phil,” being able to pinpoint each spouse’s love language and how they are not fulfilling it based on their complaints. It is very enjoyable to wield this skill, but also extremely practical. Instead of criticizing your spouse, you can create the environment to facilitate change, and the best part is, both partners do not have to be on the same page! That’s right,” The 5 Love Languages” work without needing both partners to read, so if you didn’t marry a reader, you’re in luck! Conclusion: This was my first dedicated relationship book, and I’m glad it was. “The 5 Love Languages” was not only a quick read, but easy to digest and entertaining. I purchased it for the incredibly low price of $6.86 in new condition (can’t get much better than that, even at a used bookstore). Based on all the things discussed above, I can easily endorse this book and frankly recommend it to everyone! Even if you’re not married, this book covers relationship dynamics you can apply anywhere.
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I've read dozens of books on the psychology of relationships, but this is one of the best and most useful I've ever seen. Gary Chapman's unique concept of "The 5 Love Languages" (Affirmations, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Gifts, and Physical Touch) describes how knowing and using the 5 love languages can improve and deepen loving relationships, while misunderstanding them can cause harm. The information in this book is well-organized, easy to read and understand, and includes lots of stories that are not only interesting, but clearly illustrate the author's point. There is also a self-assessment tool at the end, plus links to additional info online. Dr. Chapman's basic concept is that "5 love languages" are commonly used in committed relationships to express love and affection toward one's partner. Chapman explains that loving couples can run into trouble if they don't know and understand their own dominant love language or that of their partner. A relationship can thrive if and when each person understands which specific love language is most important to themselves and also knows and honors their partner's most important way of receiving love, which is often different from their own. All 5 of the love languages are equally useful and valid; none are better or more preferred than any other. They simply reflect how an individual's unique needs, expectations, and personality are expressed by the ways they most want to receive love from their partner. Dr. Chapman devotes a chapter to each of "The 5 Love Languages" using stories from his practice as a licensed Marriage and Family Counselor to show the need for using the correct expressions of love and how using the wrong love language can damage an otherwise good relationship. For example, if a wife's dominant love language is affirmations (including compliments, encouragement, appreciation, and gratitude) but her husband doesn't understand how important these positive words are to her, he might think it's OK to tease her about her looks, accuse her of being lazy, or criticize her cooking. When she needs kind and supportive words but hears insults and put-downs instead, she will feel unloved, no matter what else he does to show he cares. He could surprise her with flowers, hug and kiss her when he comes home, fix the leaky faucet, or offer to take the kids to the park, but still, if he does not give her the words she needs, she will feel unappreciated and unfulfilled. On the other hand, if the husband's dominant love language is spending quality time with his wife, but his wife thinks that taking good care of the house & kids and cooking him a nice meal every night is the best way to show him her love, he will feel resentful and misunderstood. What he needs most is for her to set aside time for listening and sharing with him, for making plans, and spending quality time one-on-one. If she does not understand how important quality time is to him, that will damage their relationship. Having a weekly date night is probably the most important thing this couple could do to improve their marriage. "The 5 Love Languages" is written specifically for married couples, but the advice could easily be applied to ANY relationship, including family and friends. The author has written other books using the 5 languages concept, such as "The 5 Love Languages" for parents - how to express love to their children and teens. Some kids thrive on physical touch when young, but the kind of touch is likely to change when they become teens. Some kids rely on quality time with one or both parents, while others want more time alone but still need to hear lots of affirmations. I wish I had known about "The 5 Love Languages" when my kids were little, but now that they are grown I can still use what I've learned to improve all my relationships. Overall, this book is the real deal, both important and useful. I highly recommend "The 5 Love Languages" to anyone wanting to learn how to improve and express love in their relationships.
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When I was about 75% of the way through this book, I had intended on giving it 5 stars. It's lost a star and I'll explain why. First I'll start with the meat on this bone. Dr. Gary Chapman makes a brilliant observation: There are multiple and specific ways to express love, Words of Admiration, Acts of Service, Quality time, Physical Touch, and Gift Giving. Followed by the following brilliant observations: How we are raised influences our beliefs about how to express love to others. That we can naturally have an inborn way that we feel expresses our love (regardless of how we were raised). We have an inborn way of how we *want* to be loved. We can fail to recognize that others love us when they don't express it in the way we need, and others can fail to realize we love them if we are expressing love in a way that isn't meaningful to them. Those are the best parts of the books in a nutshell. I have several disagreements with other observations Dr. Chapman makes. One is he tends to harp repeatedly on there being one almost magical form of love expression that will make a person feel loved. I disagree with this, as I think most people will have a spectrum across the five traits, finding perhaps one most meaningful, but they will have feelings on all five categories. I also think he seemed to present the Five Categories as a Holy Grail, instead of guidelines. These were minor grievances however. Then came some problematic language. During most of the first part of the book, Dr. Chapman makes religious references to church, and although it aroused my suspicions (I hate when a book devolves into religious mumbo jumbo) the references seemed to just regulate the topic to another activity couples could share, like both enjoying going to see concerts. However, the end of the book did end in scripture quotes, and extremely questionable advice to a woman who apparently seemed to be in an abusive relationship. Dr. Chapman's view of divorce as immoral then came to the forefront. And I believe his faith came before a woman in need of help. The woman was being emotionally and verbally abused, and very possibly a victim of marital rape. Her own faith was tearing her apart, since her friends, and indeed her emotions were telling her to get out of the relationship. She came to Dr. Chapman to enable her to find a way *not to leave*. When she told Dr. Chapman that all her husband seemed to want her for was sex, Dr. Chapman *going against* references he's made earlier in the book (stating that if love isn't expressed freely, it is not a true expression of love, but rather fear), then he made the suggestion that her husbands language of love was "physical touch" and that she should sleep with him more. The women reacted negatively to the suggestion, saying how emotionally damaged she would feel after a sex act with a man who ignores her and treats her coldly and critically. Dr. Chapman's response was downright cruel and I believe sexist, urging her to ignore her feelings and aim to sleep with her husband twice a week. We live in a culture where sex is seen an act, something a woman gives a man, but is separate from her being. We don't see sex as just two people interacting sexually. And I felt his language attested to having this opinion. That women were sort of sexless, desireless creatures, and should sacrifice being comfortable or feeling safe to satisfy their husbands need for sex. He also expressed in the book his belief that polyamory is unnatural and immoral, and equated it with cheating, and inevitably resulting in abandonment of a spouse. Polyamory obviously happens, so it's absurd to call it unnatural. And while yes, many folks do cheat under the guise of polyamory, polyamory can work when communication, trust, honesty and willpower are combined. The book is still well worth the read. However I found it to be one good idea over-explained, and a few bad ideas, thankfully, mostly just touched on.
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I was once asked to read this book by the only person in the world I love.....I refused. At the time I figured it to be some shrinks opinion on how we should all be in our relationships....what the hell does he know I thought.....what if he is wrong and my future wife bases our whole future on just what he says.....I imagined this book to be some guy with opinions on how to fix problems that he knows nothing about because he doesn't know "us". It's not a good feeling as a man to agree to read a book on relationships because you feel like you're putting everything into the authors hands.....and what if he "doesn't understand" or what if the advice doesn't apply to us.....what if it makes things worse between us because he advises things we don't believe in.....no....I'm not reading that I told her. 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Instead of being some guys opinions or......typical shrink talk that in no way could apply to each specific relationship.......I found it to be a book that opens up the mind to the understanding of love.....and how it is not this one universal "language" we all feel we should be the same with.....I once told her...."nobody taught me how to love, I'm growing....learning".....I pleased with her to understand I love her.......we simply didn't have an understanding of how and why we didnt approach love the exact same way as each other.....only makes sense that it should be the same right? You bicker and argue and it drives you crazy......why doesn't she understand you think.......the book is not an excuse to use or justify a true bad relationship let me add.....but it truly answers so many questions.....it is really a language of love. Once understood, this book leaves you feeling like a fool and only wanting to apply so much of what you've now learned to your future together. It takes away the work of trying to understand the things that at the time make no sense.....and allows you to focus on what's important....loving instead of wasting precious time. Read it carefully and I recommend reading it together.....I didn't get that chance but I can guarantee reading this book with who you love will allow you both to stop frequently throughout the pages and talk,learn,smile, probably cry.....but then go on to a much happier fulfilling life together once the book is closed. It can save so much if you only let it. *Update 12-1-17 I drive a bus so I have nothing but time to think as I look out the window and look up at the sky looking around me. You would probably think of screaming kids and noise but for me it is driving in my own little world and using time to think about life I am a trainer so I spend my time trying to help people learn how to maintain their body and prevent problems. 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Soooo......why not do different ones then right...... what a lot of reasons it may feel good, you may not know any other stretches or exercises, you may simply believe that if I just do it one more time again tomorrow....THAT it will finally help..... you just believe in that stretch so much that in your mind you just say I'll keep trying. You are maybe even making things worse by this but you're honest to God intentions are to completely cure one of the biggest problems in your life, pain...... I think you see where I'm getting at. Getting a little long for whoever is reading but there is a lot of meaning here that can help who knows thousands of people as long as this review remains online...... I will just end it like this..... last night I took a stretch that I have been doing for over 2 years and I changed it in a slightly different way....... a lot of the pain I normally get daily is gone....... just to put a spotlight on that sentence .....I'm saying that what I had been doing for so long..... trying to cure one of the biggest problems in my life that hadnt been working............that I continued doing........ believing in and depending on.... to be my much needed answer.......It wasn't until I allowed the idea of the same stretch applied in a different way, that I ALLOWED life to be better for me. I did not say this stretch doesn't matter anymore and say forget it to never exist again.....no, I used it to COMMUNICATE with my body in the same exact physical form....just different language from mind to body....because I always believed in it. Belief can be amazing and help you....it also can be your own worst enemy when refuse to change your ways.....lots of time I lost believing my way instead of another.....all while would have given anything to accomplish my goal......once again I stood in my own way......but I didn't give up.....otherwise pain would still be here and I wouldn't have came on here to add all these thoughts. You have to go into the book with an open mind because if you do it with the mindset of wanting it to say what it is that you want to hear.....then you can never let the life-changing words happen.......you're learning a language as you read...not what's right and wrong but what was being lost in life. Keep in mind this is a book about the language of love so if you think about when you go to school to learn a different language...you are taking the difficult step of taking time there in order to understand.....be able to take what you understand and apply it.....and be able to communicate in a NEEDED way once you learn....AND THEN USE......communicate and UNDERSTAND eachother. Just think how you feel when you meet somebody and you want to communicate but you can't and you get frustrated. you are trying to figure out what you want the other person to know and they're trying to tell or show you..... it becomes stressful and sometimes you end up walking away from each other never knowing the real meaning that was right there between the two of you. When you are able to speak the same language this simply does not happen..... The same two people if we're able to learn the same language, could come back in front of one another again and.....just imagine......imagine the possibilities with that communication.......so much never lost again. The exact same message and the exact same feelings that were always there, except now instead of the stress of not understanding, there is the excitement for anything to be possible just by coming together and understanding..... The power of language is amazing........think of when you meet somebody and they're able to speak five or six different languages, you are in awe and wish you could do it. well imagine being able to speak the one language in life that is the most unexplainable, powerful language and meaning of life, love.... I would also like to mention the fact that if these two people sat down and learn each other's languages together how helpful that is.....and how much easier it is to be able to learn how to communicate with the exact person that you're trying to ........spending time helping each other learn different languages.......TOGETHER. Bus is parked.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2017

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